We Left the City and Never Recalled

If you ever dream of a fresh start in the nation, you're not alone. Hear what it's like from 3 households who actually made the leap.
Who hasn't dreamed of dumping city life and relocating to the country? Maybe you've invested weekend vacations skimming the local real estate listings, baffled by how far a dollar can stretch: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the dive, moving from Seattle to a small summer town in Maine. I started photographing these individuals and interviewing them about their accomplishments and obstacles in transitioning to country living. The task took flight immediately-- plainly I wasn't the only one believing about leaving the city.

Do not take it from me, though. Hear it from these 3 families who left the city behind for a clean slate.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can check out more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Country.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a household of New Yorkers discovered a quirky home in the Berkshires at a 3rd the expense of their city coop, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what a lot of New york city families would consider a dream situation-- a three-bedroom coop apartment or condo in a preferable Brooklyn neighborhood. It was enough space for their family of five, with no worry of a rent walking. To manage living in the city, however, both Kenzie and Shawn had to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for an established artist and was only able to produce his own operate in his off hours.

When Kenzie's moms and dads moved to the Berkshires, a creative hub in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields household came for a go to and began dreaming of leaving the city behind. "It felt like an inspired concept," keeps in mind Shawn. "On what I thought was a lark, we looked at a home in a town with a terrific little school," states Shawn.

Transferred to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Living in a village in the country was a great answer for us," states Kenzie. We live throughout from a hurrying creek, which is comforting.

Rather of continuing to work hard to even more the professions of other artists, the couple chose to focus their efforts on building Shawn's fine-art service. Providing up their consistent city incomes while taking on the costs of winter season heating and taking care of an old house hasn't been a cakewalk, however they can't think of returning to the cramped confines of city living.

Entering their house resembles strolling into among Shawn's narrative paintings. On a common day, their child, Honey, might greet you in the backyard with a family pet rabbit, their son Peter might follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other child Odie might provide to perform a magic technique. They have gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to change their cottage into a cozy, wacky wonderland.

The kids have a lot more freedom to check out now-- they spend hours playing in the creek by their home and offering at the library down the street. And they've all noticed, states Kenzie, that "the opportunity to care is more present when you run out the frustrating scale of a city. When my mother died, individuals we didn't know well left entire meals on our deck."

They like the natural setting of their brand-new life, says Kenzie. But that's simply the start. "Playing charades with our neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, city center conferences. Our buddies down the roadway welcome people over to sing conventional music every Sunday night, actually loafing the piano after dinner."

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet found the quiet he needs to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a tiny Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's second inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today influenced the country. What the majority of people do not know is that, recalling, he's not sure he would have had the ability to compose the poem if he had not been restricted to his writing desk, surrounded by pine forests piled high with snow, up on a mountainside in his new home in St Louis, Missouri.

Prior to moving to Maine, Richard lived the majority of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and composing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a job that required the couple to relocate to the small ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Richard was a little apprehensive at initially, he was delighted at the possibility of leaving the traffic and sound of city life and having the chance to compose more.

Being the kid of Cuban exiles and an immigrant himself, who had come to San Antonio as a baby, Richard has constantly longed to find a location where he belongs. A predominant style in his writing is what it takes to make a place seem like home. And he now understands that living in the nation was a natural for him. "I think I have actually always wished to move to the nation," he says. "I always had a destination to it, specifically considering that I returned to Cuba to visit in my teenagers. The majority of my family is from rural locations in Cuba, and I felt very in the house there."

Transferred to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't understand how this town would receive them, but they have been pleasantly shocked. St Louis has actually welcomed "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were described for a while, with open arms. Richard is a respected member of the neighborhood and-- since the inauguration-- a town celeb.

"After that honeymoon stage, the first thing that began to nag on me was having to drive all over," states Richard. He also misses the anonymity of city life: "There is no such thing as simply a waiter in St Louis. You understand their entire life, and you know their children, where they grew up ... and they understand everything about you.

"After a year of fighting the components, I had to make choices about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," says Richard. "I got a little carried away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I originally came here for.

After relocating to the nation, Richard at first continued to work remotely on contract engineering jobs, but the cheaper cost of living in Maine allowed him to shift focus and prioritize his poetry. And because 2013, he's been able to work nearly completely as an author, leaving his engineering profession behind. He has actually written two numerous poems and acclaimed memoirs. He has actually taught composing workshops all over the world and just finished his first fine-press book, Borders. Numerous weeks prior to he made the journey to DC for the 2013 inauguration, he notoriously practiced his poem to an audience of snowmen in his front backyard.

He offers the place where he lives a great deal of credit for all this. Life in the nation has offered him space imp source and time to concentrate on his writing. And perhaps more importantly, it has actually lastly provided him a location that feels like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise company obstacle turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a household of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A few years ago, Joe and Ashley Duggers operated and owned 11 services in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a learning center, a maker space, a floral designer shop and a play area for toddlers, just among others. All this in addition to raising four women under the age of 6. They appreciated their busy, full lives but stressed that the abundance of Silicon Valley would give their daughters a skewed point of view on the world.

In 2010, they opened a farm-to-table restaurant called Bumble but struggled to source fairly raised meat. This led them to a new prospective endeavor-- running an animals cattle ranch that might supply meat to their dining establishment. They explored the Sharps Gulch Cattle ranch in the grassy field river valley of Fort Jones, California, a brief drive from the Oregon border. From here, it was a six-hour drive down I-5 to Silicon Valley, however without the outrageous sticker label cost of land better to the Bay Area. The property had two homes, one a historical Victorian in desperate need of repair work and one a comfortable two-bedroom cabin. They jumped in and purchased the property in 2013, hoping to one day discover a method to transfer to the ranch full time.

Relocated to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
The Duggers' original strategy was to employ ranchers to run the business. Joe and Ashley would increase on weekends so the ladies could invest time running free in the outdoors. "We always had a desire to raise our kids in broad open areas in a more rural community," states Ashley. "Joe matured on a farm and hoped we 'd get back to the land at some point. After coming up every weekend for a couple of months and discovering a gem of a neighborhood here, we quickly decided this was where we wanted to raise our kids. We offered our businesses and moved up the day our oldest child ended up kindergarten and have actually been all-in since."

After four years of hard work, the Duggers have actually developed a successful pasture-raised meat company. Looking for more methods to make a living off the land, this year they find this released 5 Ashley Retreats, where they host ladies at their hillside ranch camp for a weekend of farm tasks and cooking classes.

The Duggers do not have the conveniences, clean clothing or complimentary time they had in their previous life, and have had to become more self-dependent: "In the city, I might get anything done at the drop of a hat," states Ashley. Everything moves a little more slowly, however living on a cattle ranch means you can build anything you can picture yourself, which is more rewarding than employing somebody to do it."

Another reward is seeing their women grow into fearless, independent and dedicated free-range women. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe enjoy to blend a cocktail, put a 5 Ashley roast in the oven and sit on their front patio to view their children run totally free in the yard.

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